Please see this list as a living document, growing as my awareness and knowledge grows.
Favorite Books:
The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen
Awareness: Conversations with the Masters by Anthony de Mello
Polysecure by Jessica Fern (I especially love chapter 9 about secure attachment to self)
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
Favorite Podcasts:
Favorite Tik-Toks:
Natalie who talks about marital coercion
Other Resources I Frequently Recommend:
Become a better listener with this mini-class from Kassandra Brown
Dr K and Healthy Gamer GG – Dr K on faculty at Harvard in Psychiatry. His focus is the gamer world. He provides really rich mental health information. I especially love how he brings in eastern medicine into his work. I’ve personally learned a lot about meditation watching his videos on Youtube. Click here for his meditation playlist.
Asexual and Aromantic Resources shared by Ela Przybylo.
A great video by Ilan Stephani talking about why creating safety in the relationship needs to come before any other steps.