Things I Love

Please see this list as a living document, growing as my awareness and knowledge grows.

Favorite Books:

Sex after Grief by Joan Price

The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen

Awareness: Conversations with the Masters by Anthony de Mello

Polysecure by Jessica Fern (I especially love chapter 9 about secure attachment to self)

The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown

Favorite Podcasts:

Next Culture Radio

Favorite Tik-Toks:

If a dog can learn consent…

Natalie who talks about marital coercion

Other Resources I Frequently Recommend:

Authentic Relating Games

Become a better listener with this mini-class from Kassandra Brown

Dr K and Healthy Gamer GG – Dr K on faculty at Harvard in Psychiatry. His focus is the gamer world. He provides really rich mental health information. I especially love how he brings in eastern medicine into his work. I’ve personally learned a lot about meditation watching his videos on Youtube. Click here for his meditation playlist.

Asexual and Aromantic Resources shared by Ela Przybylo.

A great video by Ilan Stephani talking about why creating safety in the relationship needs to come before any other steps.