Book List

I thought it might be interesting to log my reading lists from the last many years.


Us: Getting Past You & Me to Build a More Loving Relationship by Terrence Real

Bound: A Daughter, A Domme, and an End-of-Life Story by Elizabeth Anne Wood

Finding Me by Viola Davis

Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman, MD

Wild Feminine: Finding Power, Spirit & Joy in the Female Body by Tami Lynn Kent

Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them by David J Ley

Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women’s Anger by Soraya Chemaly

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear

Unbound: A Woman’s Guide to Power by Kasia Urbaniak

Creating Consent Culture: A Handbook for Educators by Marcia Baczynski, Erica Scott


What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Oprah Winfrey and Bruce Perry

Listening to Ecstacy: The Transformative Power of MDMA by Charles Wininger

Stranger Here: How Weight-Loss Surgery Transformed My Body and Messed with My Head by Jen Larsen

Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship by Stephen Snyder

Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance by Kelly McDaniel

This is Just My Face: Try Not to Stare by Gabourey Sidibe

I Will Teach You To Be Rich by Ramit Sethi

Food Junkies: Recovery from Food Addiction by Vera Tarman

My Grandmother’s Hands: Racial Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern

How To Do The Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self by Nicole LePera

Brainspotting: The Revolutionary New Therapy for Rapid and Effective Change by David Grand

Proteinaholic: How Our Obsession with Meat Is Killing Us and What We Can Do About It by Garth Davis M.D., Howard Jacobson

Healers on the Edge: Somatic Sex Education by Caffyn Jesse, Cassie Moore, Mehdi Yahya

The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin, Robyn Dalzen


Breath by James Nestor

Fiber Fueled by Will Bulsiewicz

Awareness by Anthony de Mello

Existential Kink by Carolyn Elliott

Boys & Sex by Peggy Orenstein

The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy by Deb Dana

Body Respect by Linda Bacon PhD, Lucy Aphramor PhD RD

The F*ck It Diet by Caroline Dooner

The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner

Together by Vivek H. Murthy

Better Sex Through Mindfullness by Lori A. Brotto PhD

Untamed by Glennon Doyle

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Dare To Lead by Brene Brown

The 4-Hour Body by Tim Ferriss


1984 by George Orwell

Building The Ideal Private Practice by Lynn Grodzki

When The Body Says No by Gabor Mate

Braving The Wilderness by Brene Brown

Scattered by Gabor Mate

The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown

Rising Strong by Brene Brown

Daring Greatly by Brene Brown

Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine


Transformation Through Intimacy by Robert Augustus Masters

Feeling Good by David D Burns

An Intimate Life by  Cheryl Cohen-Greene

Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson

The Gift of Therapy by Irvin D. Yalom

Trauma: A Practical Guide To Working With Body and Soul by Pelmas, Christiane

Sex is the Least of It: Surrogate Partners Discuss Love Life and Intimacy by Tova Feder


The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel A. van der Kolk

The Male Brain by Louann Brizendine

Betty Dodson Bodysex Basics by Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

The Chemistry of Connection: How the Oxytocin Response Can Help You Find Trust, Intimacy, and Love by Kuchinskas, Susan

Sex in the Forbidden Zone When Therapists, Donaters, Clergy, Teachers and Other Men in Power Betray Women’s Trust by Rutter M.D., Peter

Leading and Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships by Lyon, Chris M


You’re Not Too Much: Intensive Lives in an Expansive World by Leela Sinha

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy


The Truth by Neil Strauss

Domination and Submission by Michael Makai

The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton


Vagina: A New Biography by Naomi Wolf

Memoir of Mourning: Journey through Grief and Loss to Renewal by chowaniec, claudia